"It's made me a better parent..."
I had a coffee last week with best selling author Marty Wilson at the Dymocks store in George Street and we discussed the upcoming release of Marty's new book entitled What I Wish I Knew About Motherhood
due for release in 2011. Marty said that the process of interviewing many, many mothers to research the book had undoubtedly made him a better parent. As soon as Marty said this it struck a chord with me and I thought to myself 'I wonder how many parents each day or each week look to meet new people, read something, discuss something or chat amongst others in order to become a better parent?" In todays multitasking, overpacked and stressful world we are so focused on getting everything done from early morning to late evening that we often forget about the learning process, particularly in respect to being an outstanding parent. Now, some may say that Marty is fortunate because he got to do it for his book but he really did learn from it and he continues to find other parents that he admires, sits with them, talks with them in an open way in order to continue the process of
becoming a better parent. As I was leaving the store Marty offered the following advice... 'Go through your telephone book and pick out the five parents you admire, who you think are doing a great job as parents, buy them a cup of coffee, sit, ask questions and listen. I thought this was a simple yet very powerful activity that we can all undertake that can help make us all better parents (or aunts and uncles!). There are loads of books, podcasts, video's, support groups, friends, relatives and even taxi drivers who are willing to share their story in order to be able to make you a better parent, but you do have to be open to it, it has to be important to you, you need to ask open-ended questions and most importantly you have to be prepared to really listen - there is a difference between listening and truly hearing what someone is saying. I guess this is why Marty has
become a best selling author for his books like What I Wish I Knew When I Was Eighteen.
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